Ute and Jurgen

To tell the truth, we are a little bit nervous to find the right words to you, but we are also anxious to tell you how we are and how we live and how we do feel about becoming a family. After our marriage we tried to fulfil our dream of having children. When we realized that we wouldn’t be able to have children biologically. First we tried 5x “ICSI-Method without success. Therefore we did not hesitate to adopt a child. We feel that the important thing is to have a family, not necessarily the way this family is built. So we decided seek adoptive parenthood through Adoption Services Associates.

We met each other in 2002 and fell in love. Two years later we married. We had a big celebration with our family and friends. We live in a friendly neighbourhood and in a rural environment with a lot of neighbourhood children’s.
We have a nice and large flat. The parents from Ute live behind us in whose big house with a large backyard with grass and wonderful trees. We can’t wait to play with the children in this large backyard together with grandma and grandpa and celebrate their birthdays and other special occasions, among friends and family.

We both now stand in love together more then six years. We respect each other an we also the best friends to each other. We can talk about everything and we spent all our free time together. We laugh a lot and really often think the same. We cook together at night and we both like to invite our friends or family for dinner. In summer we spent most of our time in the backyard of children’s grandparents.

During the last six years we have learned a lot through supporting each other in difficult times and also in enjoying the pleasures of life together. In our relationship, we have built a good mixture of sharing our life’s and working together to solve problems through compromise and sensitivity. We enjoy an intimate, loving and supportive relationship.

Both our parents share our eager anticipation of having a child in our home, as they come from big families themselves. We are happy that they are so supportive. We know for sure that we are ready to welcome a child into our family through adoption, and are very familiar with the joys of adoption.

For us as a couple our struggle with getting a child brought us closer together and it showed us that we wanted to be parents more than we wanted to be pregnant.
By opening our hearts to adoption, our dream of a family can become reality.

With the education of the child, we really set great care by learning be honest, polite, friendly and respectful to the others, but the most important thing is to give our child safely and love.

Your child will always know how much you loved them and the courage you displayed in making the decision to choose adoption.

We can assure you that we will love any child sent to us, unconditionally. Your hope and love aill be considered as a precious gift, not only by us, but most of all by your child.

We admire you for the very difficult decision you are currently making.

Only the best for you, God bless you

Yours sincerely,

Ute & Jürgen